

Shame - Part Two - In Loneliness
Shame in Loneliness This shame comes from the nagging feeling that there is something wrong with me, because I am alone. And the shame I...
Aug 2, 20215 min read


Shame - Part One - In Desire
When I lived in South Africa, the cool kids taught me, "shame" to be used as a way to say, "Oh man, I'm sorry!" or "That's too bad!"....
Aug 2, 20214 min read


The Widow and I
For at least a decade of my adult life, I was afraid to speak out my desire for marriage. Because once you speak something out, you have...
Jul 26, 20213 min read


Rejection. Part Two.
There might be one who says I can’t stay where I’ve been for the past twenty years. Or ten years. Or ten months. There might be one who...
Jul 20, 20212 min read


Rejection. Part One.
The thing with rejection for me has been, whether it was a brief slight or long series of "not worthy enough" encounters that compounded...
Jul 19, 20213 min read


Recent Musings on Singleness
In the past several months, I have had the honor and blessed experiences of going to Disney World, wrapping up things at school, spending...
Jul 19, 20213 min read


Welcome to “To the One who sees us…”
I wanted to give a brief introduction to my heart behind this blog. I am hoping that this will be a space for Beloved ones to express...
Jul 19, 20213 min read







